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Fanny
Junior Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 86
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 10:40 am: | 
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This may be a fun way to hear all the different stories and help the newbies who are wondering just how we got into this lifestyle. Maybe give them some ideas, as well. Plus, on a boring day, we can borrow someone else's scenarios. |
Kendra
Junior Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 56
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 11:23 am: |
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I posted this in the other thread, but decided to copy/paste it over here too, 'cause I agree that thread was getting too long  I also added more details
We had just got done watching Monty Python, and were laying in bed, and I said "Honey, ya know that one part in Monty Python? You should do that." It took me like an hour to actually come out and say it, which I still didn't I actually forwarded the movie to that part and we watched it, when it was over I got up and took the movie out of the computer dvd player, and sat down in the computer chair, and gave him this "come get me" look. He got the point and got up, sat down on the end of the bed pulled me by the wrists across his lap and I got a nice warm red behind.. :P I don't remember if he pulled down my pants or anything I was giggling too hard |
Julia
New member
Username: Julia
Post Number: 12
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 11:36 am: |
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Oh, gak! That seems so long ago and far away!
A few years ago, my husband suffered a series of small strokes. He recovered, but still has problems with sensation in his right hand. Toward the end of the year, his father died. As we were driving out to the funeral, I was talking to him in an attempt to distract him from the reality of what we were doing.
It was late, and dark. Snowing outside the car, and the kids were asleep in the back of the van. I'm not entirely sure why I blurted out that I was turned on by spanking, but I did.
When we got back from the trip, I brought it up again. The story is here.http://jssecretlife.blogspot.com/2005/03/fantasies-exposed-now-what.html |
Headteddy
Junior Spanko
Username: Headteddy
Post Number: 64
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 01:29 pm: |
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I posted this on another thread but it belongs here. This is the first time with Teddette. I will post the first ever later.
The first time I ever spanked TD was on our first weekend together in 1979. We had been dating for about 2 months and had decided to become engaged as soon as I could pay for a setting for her ring.
Her parents were out of town so we had the house to ourselves. I had just started my business and was living with my mom and grandmother so her parent's house was the only place we could be intimate.
We had discussed spanking in the relationship and she was sort of non-committal at first but later smiled and said she'd try anything once.
On Sunday morning of the weekend I was talking to a client on the phone and TD started making faces at me (She was 22 at the time- I was an old fogey of 29). Then she started to tickle me. I ended the conversation and glared at her. I believe I said some thing like " I ought spank your behind for that" She stuck her tongue out, cocked her hip at me and said "You can't spank what you can't catch" and turned and dashed down the hall heading for her bedroom. I caught her at the door and tried to turn her around-trried to land a smack-got my hand blocked by hers, grabbed her hand away got a smack in, was rewarded with a cute squeal, she broke away dashed into the bedroom dived on the bed, on her stomach. I followed, pinned her arms and spanked her for about a minute on the seat of her jeans. Then I tried to pull down the jeans, failed miserably and we just started laughing.
She wound up taking off her clothes but not for spanking (VEG) but later that day while I was making her a cup of coffee in the kitchen she snuck up and pinched me on the butt-I chased her back into the bedroom where I got her over my knee and was able to spank her bare.
Enjoy:
HT back from long election n ight and teaching, Will collapse soon. |
Smartnnaughty
New member
Username: Smartnnaughty
Post Number: 29
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, May 12, 2005 - 10:36 pm: |
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Headteddy, your story is cute. Makes me wish I was a kid again. But then again, with the right person I might feel like a kid again! Thanks for the story. I can't wait for the other one. |
Headteddy
Junior Spanko
Username: Headteddy
Post Number: 76
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, May 13, 2005 - 02:49 pm: |
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SNN:
The story is absolutely true. Our play is in the Romantic Comedy kind of mode but it can get very intense. Both in terms of sting and laughter. Keep looking for the right person.
Enjoy:
HT
Every Challenge is An Opportunity
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Sandy
New member
Username: Sandy
Post Number: 6
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, May 13, 2005 - 04:45 pm: |
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My first spanking was the first time I had sex. I was in college, making out with a guy from my chemistry class. One thing led to another, and soon I was naked but he still had his pants on. I thought this grossly unfair and demanded he take his pants off. He was lying on his back and I was sitting astride him. He informed me (in this oh so nice southern drawl) that a LADY asks politely for what she wants.
I stuck out my tongue and playfully shoved his chest. He sat up, pushed me down, and slapped my bottom a few times, sharp enough to make me gasp. It wasn't enough to really hurt or anything, but it did make me realize, "I like this!" So I *politely* asked for more. And you know where spanking a naked woman can lead... |
Wyatt
New member
Username: Wyatt
Post Number: 30
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, May 13, 2005 - 05:01 pm: |
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Great story Sandy! I'm glad to hear you found your liking so early on in life. I wish you many more 'warm experiences'
'Til next time,
Wyatt |
Rocco
Junior Spanko
Username: Rocco
Post Number: 96
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, May 13, 2005 - 05:34 pm: |
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My first time giving an adult spanking was also in college. One night I was goofing around with one of my friends in her apartment. We were in her room and the roommate was gone for then night. She decided she wanted to wrestle with me, she had a very playful bratty side. The funny thing about her wanting to wrestle with me is that I’m over 16 inches taller than her. She ran over as if to tackle me, so I just reached down with my left arm and wrapped it around her waste, bent her over slightly and gave her a few quick sharp smacks to her behind. To my surprise she didn’t fight to get away, but just squealed. Having thought she needed a spanking for a while I decided to see how far I could take this as she didn’t seem to mind. So I gave her a few more and then let her go and said “Okay, it’s time to settle down.” To which she replied with “Oh really?” and came back to wrestle with me. I just pushed her back and told her again it was time to settle down. Being the brat she was she looked at me and said “Or what?” And in my head I was jumping up and down, I mean she was feeding right in to it and I couldn’t believe it. I calmly said back to her “Or I’ll put you over my knee and spank you.” Then it got intense. She stood there defiantly and said “You are not putting my over your knee.” I was thinking to ‘No way this is happening’. So I sat down on her bed and said “You’re right, I’m not going to put you over my knee” she looked as though she won, and then I said “You are going to bend over my knee on your own.” Her jaw just dropped to the floor, you could tell there was no way she was going to do that. I thought I had pushed too far and lost her. “I don’t think so” She said. I just looked at her calmly and said “Come bend over my knee.” “No.” “I said come here and bend over my knee.” There was a slight pause as we looked at each other and I thought for sure it was over. But then she dropped her head and shuffled over to me on my right side. She lifted her eyes a little and said almost in a whisper “I really don’t want to.” Could she be pouting?? I rubbed her back softly and encouragingly and said again calmly “Bend over my knee.” She did, and practically in perfect position!! I sat there looking at her beautiful round bottom covered in her pj’s amazed, this fantasy was coming true. Putting my left hand around her waist I rubbed her behind with my right hand. When I lifted it up she kind of whimpered, and then I gave her, her first adult spanking. It was a first for both of us. After that and for the next two years of college she was my spanking buddy. She loved it, I loved it, and she was very well spanked until graduation.
I know it sounds like fiction, but every word of it is true.
(Message edited by rocco on May 13, 2005)
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Sandy
New member
Username: Sandy
Post Number: 10
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 16, 2005 - 10:04 am: |
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And just to clarify, Rocco's spanking buddy wasn't ME!! ;) But it sure sounds like you two had fun!
Thanks Wyatt -- I do everything I can to stay "warm" hehehe... like right now, goofing on the computer instead of cleaning up the kitchen when it's my turn! Whoops! |
Rocco
Junior Spanko
Username: Rocco
Post Number: 100
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 16, 2005 - 11:22 am: |
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Two of the best years I've ever spent
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Jookiegirl
New member
Username: Jookiegirl
Post Number: 6
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 17, 2005 - 12:02 am: |
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Rocco, loved the story! I wish mine was that hot. In my 3 1/2 half years or so of spanking, never have i gotten and OTK...so jealous, so very jealous. Don't really remember mine, but i'm pretty sure it was after i had read and article or something in a magazine and brought it up, even though i remember wanting it before that just one of those things you aren't sure go together or how others feel about them.
Anyone want to share what first attracted them to spanking? |
Ichabod
New member
Username: Ichabod
Post Number: 2
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 17, 2005 - 04:46 am: |
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When we had been married for about a year I bought a 'Forum' magazine. We became regular readers and our favourites were the readers letters.We became drawn to those describing spanking and after much discussion my wife agreed to let me put her over my knee and administer a gentle spanking. I did not want to put her off as I was really enjoying it. We progressed slowly, eventually to using a bamboo cane and a home made leather strap. She still begs me not to cane too hard but I do like to see the sripes on an otherwise white rear. We have now been together for 37 years and occasionally I take her place face down. I can't remember the first time she did it to me but I do enjoy the role reversal.
Ichy} |
Rocco
Spanko
Username: Rocco
Post Number: 110
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 17, 2005 - 10:30 am: |
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Thanks JG, and yes hot is exactly what it was. So sorry to hear you've gone all this time without an OTK. It is by far my favorite position.
Sendin you good thoughts to get upended soon
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Pagan
New member
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 14
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 17, 2005 - 02:05 pm: |
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My first erotic spanking occured when I was 16, by a 21 year-old boyfriend. He had brought up the subject when we were both pretty tipsy. We had discussed it a couple of times after that (always after a few drinks), and one time while we were fooling around, he flipped me over his knee. I reacted in horror, and tried to get up. I wanted him to do it, but I was really embarrassed. He managed to calm me down, and reassure me (without letting me up), and I got my first real spanking. It wasn't very hard, which was a relief at the time. I still remember the overwhelming shock of pleasured recognition. THIS is what I had been fantasizing about for years, and it felt even better than I had imagined.
He knew what he was doing. Spank a little, stroke a little, explore other regions a little. Repeat above steps . That he would do that hadn't occurred to me (I had imagined a steady stream of smacks), but I definitely liked it. It only got better with time.
Converting my vanilla spouse took a lot more work. |
Vulcano
New member
Username: Vulcano
Post Number: 8
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 10, 2005 - 02:28 am: |
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I got my first spanking just a couple of months ago... how lucky all of you who started much sooner... how much I missed  . But in my pride and distrust, I somehow couldn't admit to myself that I could ever accept giving up control. It seemed to me really strange to feel I'd love to be spanked or disciplined. Did any of you have the same feelings?? But I could have known better, my first platonic loves were teachers . Well, I got my first spanking as a birthday gift in fact... I almost forgot that this was the first one... I came to see my new boyfriend to the mountain cottage where we and his friends were celebrating the New Year's Eve. We were still new to each other though we were corresponding via SMS for more than half a year, almost every day, so we knew a lot about each other, dayly staff but also fantasies and troubles. I felt extremely close to him and at ease, trusting him, though it was the second time I saw him in person. This was very rare to me. And instead of joining the party downstairs, we ended up in the bed, me lying on my belly, and he spanked me with his hand over my trousers. He's quite a strong man and I must say I felt the pain even the next day . I don't really remember what was it for... we were just playing, at that time I would let him spank me for whatever, I just wanted to feel what it's like. I don't even remember if he pulled the trousers down later, I don't think so. I got a first serious spanking a few days later when we got to his flat that soon turned out to be mine to live in too . It was more of a costume game for him (me a naughty schoolgirl) and a trial of where are my boundaries. Again, I don't remember what was it for because it was again just a game, simply something made up. First, it was 25 OTK, the first ten very painful... I remember telling myself: "Oh, Jesus, if it means SUCH a pain, I don't want it", but he noticed it hurts too much and the next 15 were on the contrary very light... too light . The next was a little bamboo cane... he was gentle... and the sensation was sooo strange and new. I was happy when he finished and hugged me. But the truth is that after some time of kissing etc. I insisted that since I know now how it feels like to be spanked by hand and cane, I need to know how a belt feels like. Well, I got what I wanted and it was the most wonderful experience, the right erotic game.  . From now on, I'm always in search of what I like, in which situations and how to make him gently give me what I need so that he loves it too... |
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