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Youngone
New member
Username: Youngone
Post Number: 3
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, February 09, 2006 - 10:53 am: | 
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Hey everyone, I have a question some of you might have encountered before. My spanker is my neighbor and best friend. We do great together and we are open and honest. He also is great spanker. Well my problem is that he is a truck driver and is always gone. He is home a day or two every week and I get spanked and stuff then but I wish we could be together more. I love being able to feel like I can get away with things but when I know I cant once he gets home I will suffer the consequences. Is its common to miss your spanker when he/she is gone most of the time? and How do I handle my needs and desires while he is gone. |
Pinkcheeks
Junior Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 79
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 09, 2006 - 11:42 am: |
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aaawww...it must be very difficult for you. Sure wish I had an answer for you. My spanker (Hubby) is here, so it is hard for me to relate - but I am sure it is very common to feel the way you do. I am sure there are a few people here who either have experienced what you are going through, or are in the same boat right now. I'll bet they could come up with some great advice for you! Hang in there~~~
My favorite color? pink of course
"But honey...wait...I didn't mean it!!"
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Katie_spades
Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 396
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 12, 2006 - 05:05 am: |
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think you could be open and honest with him and tell him your needs nad that the only meaningful spanking com from him, and assuming he is cool with it, you can have you cake Iprivate seesions) and rat it too (you get to go hom o get a REAL spanking from your husbandand gi ti tiwn@
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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Rosie_bottom
New member
Username: Rosie_bottom
Post Number: 11
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, February 12, 2006 - 05:30 am: |
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I used to be in a 24/7 relationship and spanked regularly by my ex-husband and yes it was great but other areas of the marriage were not so good and eventually we called it a day and split up. Then for a good few years I was not spanked at all (I didn't know that others enjoyed it) until a few months ago when I discovered some spanking sites. I met several spankers and finally settled on the two I now see. One lives near by and one I have to spend half a day to travel to. But I love it, we talk on the phone, or by text and e-mails and I have to report any misbehaviour. Sometimes the one that lives a long way off (no 1) will send me a text to show to the one who is more local (no 2), asking no 2 to give me extra on no 1's behalf. (In other words they gang up on me lol). It works for us and I love it. Although I sometimes think I'd like a 24/7 relationship again I couldn't and wouldn't want to choose between them, I think I'm getting the best of both worlds. 
Thank you Sir from the heart of my bottom.
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Youngone
New member
Username: Youngone
Post Number: 44
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, February 12, 2006 - 07:09 am: |
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Well I got back together with my spanker, we have dated off and on the last year and we got back together the day before yesterday. We stay friends throughout it all and he would still spank me when we were not dating. He is actually home for a few days because of the snow storm we got here but there is nothing we can do together since I fractured my pelvis yesterday. So go figure the first time in 2 years he is home for more then 1 day we cant do anything  We have made it work out though. I know if he was home all teh time he would never spank me all the time. He feels bad to be gone as much as he is but its his job and I know he needs the money to help care for his grandmother who is really ill. We stay open and honest with eachother so that helps. We are hoping in a year he will not be driving a truck and will be home full time!! Thanks for your advice!! |
Reader_girl
Junior Spanko
Username: Reader_girl
Post Number: 64
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 12, 2006 - 09:53 am: |
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Yikes! Fractured your pelvis! Speedy healing, and I hope it doesn't hurt too much.
Reader Girl
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Katie_spades
Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 408
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 14, 2006 - 10:44 pm: |
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OMG youngone - are you okay? Hoe did that happen? I know it is possible but what position where you in and what implement was used. I feel so awful and you hav my deepest sympathies. You'll be in my thoughts and try to feel better - I can't even imagine the pain. you poor little dear.
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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