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Little_miss
New member
Username: Little_miss
Post Number: 3
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, May 13, 2006 - 09:03 am: | 
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For those of you who recieve spankings, you know they hurt an awful lot...but you want them right? Do you ever demand that who ever's spanking you stops and actually mean it? I do it all the time but it just makes him spank harder...it's like i can't help it. I have to whine while i'm being spanked. This makes me wonder if i really want it/ enjoy it/ or need it. Any imput? Can anyone relate? LoL
"Lately it just seems to me like we have the letters ADD branded into our mentality"
~Reliant K
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Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 368
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, May 13, 2006 - 01:25 pm: |
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Little miss - I do that almost every time. I want the spanking and in time I seem to be able to role into it, the sensations etc. But up to that point of going with the flow, the spanks always seem so hard and I am always ready to and do say stop stop stop, that's enough, OK we're done etc. etc. etc.
So why do I want it to continue as soon as the spanking stops?
However, after that certain point is reached when I can go with the flow of the spanking then it becomes nicer even though the swats may still be as hard.
I don't understand it either.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Victoria_wood
Junior Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 93
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, May 14, 2006 - 04:49 pm: |
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Little miss --
Are you saying you don't have a safeword?
When my spanking starts, I generally think to myself "wow this hurts way more than I remembered. It's funny I want it so much, but it really hurts." However, I never ask for it to stop and mean it. If I did, it would stop. And I know from experience that I can get through it.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Redhinney
Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 430
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 15, 2006 - 08:45 am: |
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Begging for him to stop is so much a part of it. There are times I will give away all my worldly possession for him to stop but he doesn't only Bill determines when he will stop becasue he knows those whinning pleds are not for real Once I get intot he spanking I'm in heavean and after 26 years he knows that
But if you really want them to stop you must have a safe word.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Pinkcheeks
Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 415
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 15, 2006 - 03:46 pm: |
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<----agrees with Red 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1674
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 15, 2006 - 09:25 pm: |
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If I wanted to stop Steve, all I would need is my safeword. I know it would stop him in his tracks, and then we would discuss my reasons for using it. I trust him completely, but having a safeword is nice. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Otter
Junior Spanko
Username: Otter
Post Number: 83
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 16, 2006 - 12:14 am: |
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I always have the problem (and I think I mentioned it before) that when it gets really overwhelming so that I might actually want it to stop, I can't remember my safeword. Then by the time I have thought of it, I have distracted my brain enough that I can handle what's going on again.
If I get to a point where I can't get my brain to recall it, then I know I do need him to stop and then I just say, "Stop, please stop!" since I don't normally say that, he knows that he really does need to check on me. I just don't normally say "Stop" though I do make noise and once in awhile actually form coherent words.
When I really need him to stop, I will also usually put my hand out and up which I never do otherwise.
So I do have a safeword but the few times I have actually safeworded out (all due to mental triggers/flashbacks, rather than anything he did), he actually had to ask "do you want to safeword out?" and I said yes.
"Sometimes love don't feel like it should." -John Cougar
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Otter
Junior Spanko
Username: Otter
Post Number: 84
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 16, 2006 - 12:20 am: |
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Oh, I also wanted to address the OP. I always think that it is too much when it is happening and that I am stupid and that there is no possible way that I am really a spanko or that I really want this. When it is happening. I mean, come on, it HURTS! But, many times, the minute he stops, I want more. Or if I get enought to satisfy me, I am thinking about it fondly right away and the next day. About the time, I start to forget what it felt like, that's when I start to get pissy and need another one. So I guess, at least for me, not wanting it at the time is not a sign of not wanting/needing it at all, LOL.
Another thing that makes me pretty sure I do want it is my new masturbation material. Last time Jon was spanking me with the rubber ruler, he was going as hard as he could. I looked back over my shoulder and watched him raise that ruler all the way up over his head and start to bring it down. I couldn't watch for more than a couple seconds (I had to look away before it landed) but just that little mental image has put me over the edge with my vibrator about 5 times in the last week!
"Sometimes love don't feel like it should." -John Cougar
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Victoria_wood
Junior Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 97
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 16, 2006 - 06:22 am: |
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Otter,
I feel the same way you describe in the above post.
I've never masturbated to the memory, but I can't bear to watch the arm come down! Yikes.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Little_miss
New member
Username: Little_miss
Post Number: 4
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 17, 2006 - 08:51 am: |
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i'm really glad that a lot of ppl feel the same. lol. i guess i'm sure that i like it and probably couldn't live without it. The only reason we don't have a safeword is because we use it for punishment only. I trust Adam to not abuse me but the spanking's always soo unpleasant. LoL
"Lately it just seems to me like we have the letters ADD branded into our mentality"
~Reliant K
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